Don’t be surprised if your other children are not as excited about your pregnancy as you are. Some find it very exciting, while others might find it a little bit scary.
The time you now spend with the newborn may appear as though you don't love them anymore. Sit down and explain to them that you have plenty of love to go around. Also, be honest about the fact that you won’t have as much free time, especially for the first weeks after baby comes home, because babies require a lot of care. Plan some time that revolves around them.
Also, tell your children you would love to have their help taking care of their new little brother or sister. Many children will be more accepting if they feel included. Let your children know that they should always come to you with questions or concerns.
As long as your children don’t feel left out or neglected, they will begin to accept the idea of having a new sibling. After a while, they too may start to feel the excitement. Just give them time to adjust and reassure them from time to time. |